
This summer Abby and I attended a meeting about Girl Scouts. Abby seemed really interested in doing Daisy scouts ( Daisy's is what you are in Kindergarten and 1st grade) and at the time it seemed like a good idea to volunteer to be a troop leader. I figured how hard could it really be to come up with activities and crafts for a small group of girls 1-2x a month. HA little did I know I was in for it! To make a long story short I got paired with another mom who had agreed to help with Daisy's that also leads a junior troop. A very involved and active junior troop. So my idea of planning crafts 1-2x a month became a super involved thing. She is very by the book so I got a crash course in running a parent information meeting where I had to give information on registration, financial aide, girl scout programs, the uniform, patches, badges (they are not the same thing!) etc. I also had to open a troop checking account, ask parents for dues and then figure out the best way to spend other parents money. Needless to say it was WAY more than I bargained for. My 1-2x a month also was squashed by the fact that I happened to have a troop of 14 girls that regularly attend meetings and the parents and girls
were enjoying it so much they wanted more. I guess it means we were doing something right but I realized I was in over my head as far as time commitments went. Luckily another mom was wanting to step in a co lead which was great, but here is where the MOM DRAMA starts. Heather the original helper felt pushed out of the position (which I think she felt like her position was to boss me around but never really intend to help with much) Laura luckily was a little more on the same page as I was and we work together well even though I have to rein her in sometimes and remind her I am not willing to do a big Girl Scout activity every week.

I have enjoyed planning activities and crafts for the girls to do and if I didn't have to worry about money and collecting money and more or less our troops lack of money things would be more fun but all in all I enjoy the meetings and planning. The mom drama is what I do not enjoy nor do I understand. It seems to be present in anything that moms do and I don't understand why we feel the need to make our lives harder. I think I finally got through to Heather when I cut her off on the phone one day and had to rather rudely tell her I don't do DRAMA! I don't talk behind peoples backs and I don't back stab and I don't participate in mom drama so if that is what she wanted to do I didn't need her anymore. If you know me at all, this is very unlike me. I am a peace keeper and saying this took a lot of courage and a fair amount of anger but it seems to have gotten better since then.

This was the first Girl Scout sponsored program that my troop attended. It was a Mind, Body and Soul program. We did Yoga, made journals, tried new healthy food and got to meet a lot of other girls. It was a little hectic with 14 5 year olds but I think everyone had fun.
Abby said she had a good time and that is why I am doing this so I am counting this as a success.