Saturday, February 19, 2022

NE One Volleyball

This volleyball season had a rough start, and it was one of those moments where you feel terrible for your child and there is nothing you can do to make it better. Abby had tried out for the NE Juniors team with her 4 friends. The other 3 girls made it, and she did not. While on the outside she handled it well I knew she was super sad. We had to have the discussion of, if she really wanted to play volleyball then we would find somewhere for her to play volleyball. After thinking about it for a week or so she decided that she liked volleyball enough to play for a different team. She tried out for the NE One club team and made a travel team. She was excited about this, and we were nervous about the commitment that it was going to be but excited for her. 
She really loved her team and her coaches. Dale was a one of the coaches and his daughter Maddie was the other coach. Dale was laidback and calm, and Maddie was loud and fierce. They balanced each other out well. They played Lincoln, Omaha, KC and a Des Moines tournament. Abby had skills practice 1x a week and team practice 1x a week. This kept her super busy! 
It was great that Abby loved her team and coaches, but I will say that Robb and I were not cut out to be travel team parents. I think there were a couple main reasons, 
1. Abby was not our only child and usually we had multiple activities on any given weekend.
 2. We don't like to spend money on hotel rooms to stay in Omaha or Iowa.
 3. We do not want any part of the 50+ text a day group chat
 4. We aren't really game to plan an extravagant party bag, team cheer or team supper. 
Thank goodness Abby fit in better than we did!
Abby focused mostly on her front row skills and being a hitter. She liked the front row, but it did cut down on her playing time and I missed not watching her serve as often. She didn't get as much play time as she would have liked but she was a good sport. Her lack of competitive spirit probably comes from me and doesn't work in her favor when it comes to being aggressive in sports.











 

Saturday, February 12, 2022

Colorado Ski Trip

Last year we took the girls skiing for the first time and we have now made ski bums out of all of our children and Brook. This year we opted to go to a bigger mountain since no one was just learning anymore. We weren't able to do a ski in/ski out place, which was so convenient last year, but this mountain was so much better! We skied at Keystone this year. The bunny hill was big enough and yet small enough for the beginners to have fun but not too hard to make it frustrating. Abby, Susie and Emmy spent time on the bunny hill to refresh their skills before going on anything bigger. The boys and Brook just picked up where they left off last time. Caleb kept trying to track his skiing speed with his driving app and I was terrified that he was going to be one of the skiers that was air lifted out of there by the end of the week. He really wanted to get his speed up to 50 miles an hour. Thankfully, no one got hurt and everyone had fun!


Bryce, Emmy and I went on a couple runs together. Caleb didn't really have the patience to ride the lift with Emmy or wait for us, so he solo skied most of the time. He was a man on a mission to get as many runs in as possible before the lifts closed.


Emmy really loved the little trails through the trees that had mini jumps and tight corners. She loved these because she is still at the age where a fall doesn't take you the entire week to recover from!

Brook is our Emmy whisperer. She can get Emmy to cooperate with things that we can never get her to agree to. She is also lovely to have around and overall, a good buffer between all of our kids. 

We had some great weather where skiing in a jersey wasn't too cold. The last couple days we skied were by far the coldest and we realized how wimpy we really were.

One afternoon, everyone headed home around 2:00 but Robb is always game to stay until the lifts shut down. Emmy wanted to stay so they both hit the slopes until they kicked them off. Emmy said this was one of the best days, but she was beat afterwards! Robb had to carry her skis back and almost had to carry her.

It has been so fun to have an activity that our entire family enjoys. We all enjoy it a little different but all the same, it is something we can do together. 

Robb: extreme snowboarding in the fact that he likes to be there from open to close and would do night skiing if it was available, would prefer to eat a granola bar on the lift and not stop for lunch. It might take him an hour to get all of his stuff on, but he will be warm enough for the entire day. Likes hard blues and easy blacks. Enjoys a challenge but doesn't want to get hurt especially not early in the week.

Erin: leisure skier, likes to get up and eat a good breakfast, hits the slopes around 10, lunch at 1 and around 3 is ready to call it a day and get a coffee. Likes to ski the medium green/blue whatever isn't terribly crowded and has a good view. Skis like she doesn't want to fall because she doesn't.

Bryce: Leisure skier, likes to eat a good breakfast, not in a hurry to get there in the morning. Doesn't like to be too cold and doing anything before coffee is a no go. He likes to ski medium blues for a bit of a challenge but doesn't plan to get hurt. He enjoys snacks and warm up times in between runs and is usually ready to head home for a nap after lunch. He likes to ski with someone but hates taking Emmy on the lift because he is worried, she is going to fall through the bars. 

Caleb: Extreme skier to the max! The less gear the better, he doesn't want anything extra to drag around. He would like to be the very first one on the lift and ideally would like the ski patrol to have to find him to make him leave at the end of the day. He has no patience for slow, new or beginner skiers. He likes to go as fast as humanly possible down any mountain preferably as steep as possible. He doesn't have time for breaks or lunch. He has no self-preservation and is certain that he can't break or maim himself by going extremely fast or going through trees. 

Abby: Leisure skier, she likes to just get there when she gets everything on and ready. She will only ski with a buddy and worries about getting lost (just go down the hill). She is the epitome of slow and steady wins the race. Speed is not important to her, and she is likely to stop for an extended rest if there are too many people on a section of the mountain. She is only willing to do green runs and will fall if you even say blue run. She skis like she doesn't want to get hurt because she really doesn't want to get hurt. She likes to end early in the day and save some time for shopping at the outlet mall. 

Emmy: is a beginner skier with the need for speed like an advanced skier. She doesn't have any poles, so she is forever needing a push or pull on the flat areas. She is fearless to a fault on the lifts and makes anyone that rides with her nervous that she is going to slip right off the seat. Her gear weighs about as much as her and after a long day she won't carry any of her own gear to the car. She is a go getter and once she gets there, she is game to go down the mountain over and over and over again. 




Robb's cousin Jake was able to come down with his kids for the day and hang out with us. It is always fun to see him and the girls.

Poor Brook was just getting over strep throat and a terrible cold, so she didn't feel great for the first couple of days. I think Bryce caught what she had or something else because he didn't feel very good for a couple days also. He had a terrible cough and needed his inhaler when he got short of breath, so he spent a fair amount of time on the couch.

See what I mean about her gear weighing as much as she does!

This year the Winter Olympics were on while we were there. Susie bought medals and gave them out for funny categories.


 

Sunday, February 6, 2022

Sweet 13th

We rented out Nancy's wedding barn and had a big birthday bash planned. We had a photo back drop, chocolate fountain, dipped strawberries, and a party planner. As Robb would say, it was A Lot over the top. They were all super excited. Their friends arrived about 30 min before they did and hid and jumped out and yelled Happy Birthday. 

Cake pops, cake and dipped strawberries. I even found a baker to make cake pops that were gluten free that looked the same. They were delicious too!


Chocolate fountain with fruit.

Happy Birthday Fab 4!

Mya, Jaisah, Abby, Kaylee, Sydney and Alexa


Emmy was so excited to be part of the surprise and get to help! She even got a new ourfit for the occasion, just like the big girls.


He may have thought it was expensive and over the top, but Abby has had Robb wrapped around her finger since the moment he saw her. He would do anything for his little girl!



Kaylee and Ada the dance group


They had a wonderful turn out! We had some ice breaker games with prizes, an unwrap the saran wrap ball to win gift cards game and a tik tok challenge. The night was a success!

 

Saturday, February 5, 2022

Photo Shoot

Abby, Maddie, Claire and Addison all turned 13 within 2 weeks of each other and these girls have been friends for so long! They call themselves the Fab 4. We knew that we wanted to do a combined party for them this year, but we had some logistics to work out to keep it a secret. We told them that we were going to have them get their hair and nails done and we had let them each purchase an outfit and we were going to do a photoshoot for their party. At 13 a photo shoot with your friends is pretty great so they really didn't question anything. Abby is also pretty easy to fool, and she thought that I was making massive amounts of gluten free food for a co-worker's baby shower. By this point we had let Emmy in on the secret and even she was in disbelief that I could just be doing all the prep work out in the open with no questions asked. 
First stop nail salon

After hair we headed to the Haymarket to have some fun photo backgrounds. We stopped at Ivanna Cone but that may have been a mistake, because I think 2 of the 4 got ice-cream on their new outfits. 

Abby was totally game for taking pictures and was in a great mood. This could not be said for a couple of the girls. Let me tell you hormones and bad moods run high with this age group.


We got some super cute pictures!


After the photo shoot they headed to Maddie's house where her dad was grilling supper for them and then, they didn't know it, but they had a party to attend that evening.

 

Friday, February 4, 2022

Happy 8th Birthday Emmy

Emmy, you may just grow up to be a party planner one day! You have been planning your party for 3 months. It was quite the dilemma though because you really wanted a sleepover party on your birthday, but we couldn't host a sleepover with fifteen 3rd graders. You had decided on 3 that you really wanted to have stay the night, but you also wanted a big party with more of your friends at some point. If you are thinking that your parents are big pushovers at this point, you would be correct. We agreed to let you have Wynne, Olivia and Kenzley spend the night on the Friday of your birthday. You had made me a list of groceries, decided on the menu, got Abby's assistance to order pajamas for everyone and had planned activities and decorations. All dad and I had to do was hand over the money for these plans. They were great and everyone had a lot of fun. One slight misstep on our part as the parents was that we didn't realize that the pajamas that you had ordered with Abby's help were actually crop tops. We then had to explain when parents came that we didn't really intend to buy their 8-year-old a crop top. Sorry about that!
Pizza for supper

Cake pops for snack

Opening the crop top pajamas.